Second-class dilemma
Question
I'm studying for a law degree and I'm in my second year. Recently, I've been feeling very depressed because despite working really hard, I'm only coming out with 2:2s.
I've taken my tutor's advice to improve my grades, but nothing seems to be working. Is it worth staying at university for a 2:2 degree?
Answer
It sounds like you've been having a difficult time and this must be frustrating, especially as you've been working really hard. Studying for a degree can be challenging and you clearly feel under pressure to get high grades, but achieving a 2:2 for many students is an extremely high achievement and it may be worth considering how well you've done so far.
You may find it useful to speak to your personal tutor or university careers advisor about how you're feeling. For independent careers advice, you could try contacting The Law Society on 01527 504433. Alternatively, there's information available on the Law Careers Advice Network website.
The pressure of continuously scoring high grades must be causing you a considerable amount of stress and it sounds like your self esteem may have been affected, too. You also mention feeling depressed.
The combination of stress and depression can have a very negative impact on people's lives. The intensity of emotions created can become difficult to express and the experience may leave you feeling very isolated, but there are ways of overcoming it.
You don't mention if you have talked to your local doctor (GP) about your feelings. If you and your GP think it is appropriate, they will be able to explore the options of support and possible treatment, especially if your depression continues. Your GP should also be able to refer you onto an appropriate counselling service or you could try contacting the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy if you wish to seek this form of support independently.
Sometimes opening up to family and friends about your feelings can help too. It's understandable that some people prefer to keep things from those they are close to for fear of upsetting them, but often once people know the situation they are able to offer help and support. If you would prefer to talk to someone you don't know, you could contact SANEline on 0845 767 8000. This is a national mental health helpline offering confidential emotional support and information to anyone experiencing mental health problems.
Updated: 05/06/2008
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